Hey Jud!

Hi Judith, I have never had an orgasm, and I feel that this is something                                                                                          that holds me back in my relationships. I am not with anyone right now,                                                                                           but I'm afraid to get into a sexual relationship with a man because I                                                                                             cannot tell him what I need to achieve orgasm (because I don't know).                                                                                           Are there some women who are incapable of orgasm?

Dear More Capable Than You Think,
You know what is so great?
That you haven't orgasmed YET!
You have something terrific to learn
AND
you have something pleasurable to look forward to!

What a time in your life.
You are not with anyone, so you can learn on your own.

Then when you are orgasming regularly, you can share                                                                                                                     that information and experience with                                                                                                                                                             someone you choose, teaching them what you have learned.

Do you know why it's so easy for men to orgasm?
Because they have so much practice!

So now it's your turn to turn off the phone, the computer, and TV,
and turn on the music, get out the candles, and touch yourself                                                                                                               in ways that give you pleasure.
Pay attention to the little feelings, since those are the feelings                                                                                                           that can build.

Women orgasm in different ways.
Some have implosions, some have explosions, and some have                                                                                                             little blips.
Every woman has her own pattern or patterns, and each time                                                                                                               can be different.
Women learn to orgasm at different times in their lives.
This seems to be your time!
So back to your question.  Are some women incapable of learning to orgasm?                                                                            Are some women incapable of learning to drive? or play tennis? or dance?                                                                                   Please let me know!

I'll be thinking of you.... with pleasure....
Jud.