I wish I could tell you a date.  I wish I were a fortune teller who could tell you exactly when. I wish I were a small, sweet sparrow in a bedtime story whispering, "Soon, soon,"

But I'm not  I do know, however that love comes when you are not looking for it.  It sneaks up on you. It surprises you. It jumps in front of you like an unexpected deer crossing a dusky country road.

We can increase the likelihood of a new love coming in.  We can be even more loving to ourselves.  We can be more loving to others. We can offer loving gestures, and can express loving in various ways, baking or doing sports with a child in the building in or the neighborhood, being caring to colleagues, mentoring others, keeping up with friends, or surprising those you still care about with a personal handwritten card,  showing caring and respect for those who work in the grocery store. I think about Gary Chapman's book about "The Five Love Languages", who talks about the way we love.  More love can come in with your expanding your love languages to include quality time, words of affirmation, physical affection, acts of service, and Oh no, It's like with naming the seven swarfs, I always forget one or two..... GIFTS!!! 

The more you fill your life with love, using as many languages as you can, the more love you will feel, and the more love you will attract. And with all that love is in your life, who knows what can happen?  If I were a betting person, I'd put my money on it. And on you, and your new love finding you. After all, who could possibly stay away?

My best,
Jud