What would be fun for you?  Whatever it is, it could take planning.  Think about setting a scene, with privacy, atmosphere, fragrances, low lights or candles, oils, large peacock feathers, velvet or soft blankets, clothing that shows some but that leaves some for the imagination,  Conbsider foods that are suitable for nibbling and for geeing each other, wine, such as Saint Amour, perfect for foods that are savory or sweet, music in the background that is pleasing and relaxing. In your attention to detail, it's important to remove any distractions such as hones, answering machines, Blackberries, messiness, clutter, red flags that are easy to pay attention to if you are looking for a distraction, and saying things to yourself such as "Be here now!"  Fortunately, VD is on a Sat this year,  This is good because if you both set a wonderful  table, have plenty of atmosphere, and feel close, then fall asleep, you can have the next morning together for whatever you didn't do the previous evening. Water based lube, massage oil, fresh sheets, and eyes open sex, so that you Chocolate, strawberries, time, freely getting some thing for eachgof you, using words of affirmation, "Oh, I love it  when you,,,,", can all enhance your experience.

Think: seeing, hearing, tasting, touching, feeling, being present, taking your time and enjoying each moment.

I think that's a pretty good start, don't you?

With pleasure,
Jud

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