What's true for lesbians?
HeyJud,
Is it true that lesbians prefer clitoral stimulation and shy away from penetration? (This came out of a conversation I had with a friend who proposed this notion. I think it sounds crazy, but thought I'd ask.)
I'm so glad you asked, since asking is how we learn.
What strikes me out this question is it's sense of generality. Would we ask if it were true that Caucasians liked pasta, whether black people like chicken, or if Latinas liked dancing?
Some of us do and some of us don't. Or we do at some times but not at others. We just can't identify or determine what everyone in a group likes, since groups are made up of individuals. So, here we go.
Some lesbians enjoy penetration, and others would prefer not to be penetrated.
Some prefer being penetrated, while others prefer being the inserter.
Some enjoy what they enjoy some times, while not at others.
And some variations which I have not thought of or identified, but I'm sure you will.
Some lesbians enjoy penetration, and others would prefer not to be penetrated.
Some prefer being penetrated, while others prefer being the inserter.
Some enjoy what they enjoy some times, while not at others.
And some variations which I have not thought of or identified, but I'm sure you will.
Also, why is sexuality, or the issue you raise, either/or? Why is it clit stim or penetration? It may not be an either/or choice or preference, but a both/and. Again, each person is different, and preferences can change moment to moment, or can be ingrained.
So, we just can't generalize about any group related to what they do or enjoy.
What's important, however, is to keep asking these questions so that we all can learn.
Thinking of you,
Jud
What's important, however, is to keep asking these questions so that we all can learn.
Thinking of you,
Jud
